Monday, 17 March 2014

Part 1 - Founder's Syndrome or Workplace Mobbing?

Founder's Syndrome or Workplace Mobbing?  

Would you take an allegation of Founder Syndrome at face value? ... Or would you question about the motivations of the people denigrating the founder in this way?

Such labelling may speak volumes about the denigrators, and little about the founder.  Founder Syndrome sounds like a medical condition with mental health implications, and such an allegation against a founder is hard to defend. Whatever the founder's response is, in all likelihood it could be presented as verifying the allegation.

With a key feature of workplace mobbing being the negative branding of the target, should we not question whether the labelling of an individual as having Founder's Syndrome is an indication of the Board of Trustees instigating the mobbing process (organisational bullying), a process referred to by researchers as "psychological terrorism', 'soft genocide' and 'bullying on steroids'?

Mobbing, shockingly, is not illegal in the UK, whereas in several other European countries, including Sweden and France it is an offence. In France, an article under the French Employment Code defines moral harassment (mobbing) as a situation where an employee is subjected to repeated acts which may result in degradation of his working conditions, that might undermine his rights and dignity, affect his physical or mental health or jeopardise his professional future, without the need for any discrimination component. The penalty imposed may be two years imprisonment and 30,000 euro fine, demonstrating the severity of the crime.  Similar legislation should be introduced in the UK.

In her book "A Nasty Piece of Work: Translating a Decade of Research on Non-Sexual Harassment, Psychological Terror, Mobbing and Emotional Abuse on the job", researcher Pamela Lutgen-Sandvik Ph.D, ORCM Academic Press 2013 gives a nonprofit case example of workplace mobbing:

"Typically, abusers also negatively brand the target in some way. In the following example, the CEO of a nonprofit describes his branding experience from the Vice President on the board that directly supervised him.

"The rumour had been spread that I had had several small strokes and was in the beginning of Alzheimer's disease and was no longer competent and able to lead the organisation".

The audience of the board members' message included other board members and key staff. Potentially, the Vice President used this tactic to gain support for the CEO's eventual removal."


Lutgen-Sandvik identifies six stages in the mobbing process:

Stage 1: Initial Incident - the target comes to the negative attention of the manager

Stage 2: Progressive Discipline - the aggressor uses organisational policies and procedures to create a "paper trail" that supports firing or otherwise punishing the target.

Stage 3: Turning Point - the abuse becomes increasingly negative, personal and overbearing. Escalated repetition, reframing, branding, and support seeking marked hostile communication

Stage 4 - Organisational Ambivalence - other managers including upper-management join with the abuser to redefine the abusive situation in ways that diminish or disregard targets' experiences.

Stage 5 - Isolation-Silencing

During the final stages, fear and intimidation effectively silence both target and witnessing bystanders. The abuser continues to manipulate the target's reputation through rumour, slander, and ridicule.

Stage 6 - Target Expulsion - the target is driven out

... and after a gap, the cycle may regenerate with a new target being identified.

From my own experience, I can verify these stages.

Whilst I suggest the label of Founder's Syndrome is a potential sign of mobbing and should not be used, I am not claiming founders are fault free; on the contrary, like everyone else, founders have their own issues and developmental needs. The key is whether the governance of any given charity is adequate to address the issues and developmental needs as they arise. If the charity has reached a stage where a new set of skills is required to move the charity forward, open, honest discussion which includes the founder should take place to decide how best these skills can be obtained, whether it is through additional training, bringing in new staff to support him or her in the identified areas of need or whether it is time to instigate a succession plan for leadership of the organisation.

When a founder leader moves on, it should be remembered that this will be experienced as a deep felt loss for the individual. Any person who founds a successful charity should be respected, admired and celebrated because they have achieved what the majority can't. They are entrepreneurs who are not driven by personal financial gain, but by a wish to address an unmet social need in society. Typically he or she would have dedicated enormous energy, time, money and tears to establishing the charity over years, driven by an intense passion to provide support to vulnerable individuals.  Frequently motivated by personal experience, their dedication and love of the charity is heartfelt. With their mission accomplished, a celebration of their work and legacy should be organised, as this will be a major life change for the individual and will assist them in moving on to accomplish other great achievements in their life.

Poor management by a Board of Trustees will result in a very different ending. If a Board concludes, without discussion with the founder that it is time for a change of leader, I believe there is an increased likelihood that mobbing will occur.  For a Board of Trustees to resort to victimization and mobbing of the founder indicates poor governance, and a highly questionable ethical position.

Such unethical behaviour should ring alarm bells and lead others, including the Charity Commission, to question the motivation and morality underpinning the Board's decisionmaking.



Saturday, 25 January 2014

Mobbing is ...

Mobbing involves a progressive attack on a target, which may initially be instigated by one or two individuals. Then the assault on the individual develops by bringing other people to support the denigration of the person. This will include the organisation's management which collaborates, actively or through lack of action, to have the target evicted, via a process of ostracisation, lies, rumour mongering and so on.  For those of you who are unfamiliar with workplace mobbing, I will explain this in detail in a later blog. I am currently reading an excellent book: Overcoming Mobbing: A Recovery Guide for Workplace Aggression and Bullying, by Duffy, M. & Sperry, L. (2013) which I highly recommend.

I have become aware that the mobbing of Founder/Charity Leaders is not uncommon and sadly I know of another Charity Founder/CEO who also had a stress-related seizure because of the treatment she was subjected to by the Charity's Board of Trustees. It appears that these violent psychological attacks by non-profit organisations are swept under the carpet probably, as in my case, using a policy of silence, combined with the absence of an adequate structure of accountability.  Alternatively their attacks are presented as an issue of "Founders Syndrome" whereby the Founder is used as a scapegoat for the dysfunction of the management team. I will share an excellent article which discusses the issue of Founder Syndrome in the later blog.

Meanwhile, I'd like to share some quotes regarding workplace bullying in the not-profit-sector, and have provided the relevant links to the full articles.

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"Workplace bullying in nonprofit organizations is far more prevalent than one might believe. We tend to think they’re organized by good people to advance a cause or perform a service for the community. All it takes is one or two motivated board members to ruin somebody’s career. For one thing, nonprofit executives tend to be women and board members tend to be men. What’s more non-profit boards face nearly no accountability. There are no owners, partners, or stock holders. And there is very little government oversight. Add in employer-centric employment laws, board members have de facto double “0″ status.  Those one or two motivated enemies on the board of directors can destroy an employee with impunity." - http://www.nblsc.org/workplace-bullying-in-nonprofit-organizations/

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"Board bullying,” as I call it, is one of the largely unexplored aspects of workplace bullying. I do not know how frequent it is, and I have not yet found any research literature on the topic. (Readers, if you know of any studies, please share in the comments!) And yet I know it is real. I suspect it is more prevalent in the non-profit sector than in the business sector, but that impression may be unduly influenced by the fact that I’ve spent much of my career and volunteer service in non-profit organizations." - http://newworkplace.wordpress.com/2011/08/25/when-the-bullying-comes-from-a-board-member/

Monday, 20 January 2014

Why is a particular person targeted?



A couple of inspiring twitter quotes from Celebrities Unite @URBullyProof:



"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life, but define yourself.”

"Use what you've been through as fuel, believe in yourself and be unstoppable"



... and in the words of Martin Luther King Jnr:

"Life's most persistent and urgent question is 'What are you doing for others'?'"


On my journey of recovery from workplace bullying and mobbing, I have had an overwhelming need to try to make sense of what happened to me and why. It has been a steep learning curve and perhaps the key lessons for me have been:

- that many people do not share the same core values as me, i.e. the importance of caring for others, of honesty, and of justice. This came as a great shock as I had expected the people I worked with to share these values and to have care and respect towards me.

- that there are many more people in our world who are primarily ego-driven and/or with mental health issues, than I had realised. 

- that if you have been bullied, you are NOT TO BLAME and there is NO SHAME

- Bullying speaks volumes about the bully, not about the target. 


Before continuing with my story, I'd like to share some of what I have learnt as these may help you to understand why events unfolded in the way they did. 

Why is a particular person targeted?

Often it is because of the Tall Poppy Syndrome - the tendancy to criticise highly successful people (ie, tall poppies), and 'cut them down'. (Urbandictionary.com)

From www.workplacebullying.org: 

"Most likely, you were targeted (for reasons the instigator may or may not have known) because you posed a "threat" to him or her. The perception of threat is entirely in his/her mind, but it is what he/she feels and believes."

"WBI research findings from our year 2000 study and conversations with thousands of targets have confirmed that targets appear to be the veteran and most skilled person in the workgroup."
"Targets are independent. They refuse to be subservient. Bullies seek to enslave targets. When targets take steps to preserve their dignity, their right to be treated with respect, bullies escalate their campaigns of hatred and intimidation to wrest control of the target's work from the target."
Targets are more technically skilled than their bullies. They are the "go-to" veteran workers to whom new employees turn for guidance. Insecure bosses and co-workers can't stand to share credit for the recognition of talent. Bully bosses steal credit from skilled targets."







Thursday, 9 January 2014

Stress-related seizure

My seizure occurred in May 2011 in a busy town centre and was witnessed by my husband, who fortunately caught me as I fell to the ground.  A neurologist has confirmed in writing that the workplace stress I was under was likely to be a significant contributory factor in this occurring. Unfortunately as my husband's first wife died of a seizure when his two daughters were 2 and 4 years old, my husband experienced a post-traumatic reaction in response to my seizure, fearful I too was going to die. As a result, my husband was unable to continue working and took early retirement at the end of December 2011.

Following the seizure, I had to undergo numerous hospital tests over months including CT scans, MRI scans etc. and this also added to the stress as we waited to find out whether I had an underlying problem such as epilepsy, a brain tumour or heart condition.  The results fortunately were negative and a diagnosis of an anoxic seizure was confirmed.  Even after my seizure, staff (a few of whom I had considered personal friends) were not allowed even to send me get well messages, a card or flowers.  This was deeply hurtful and added immensely to my distress.  My husband asked the trustees to lift the ban on communication between me and the charity staff but the trustees refused. 

The ostracisation continued for two months. I still had no information in writing about the allegation against me, still no procedures had been followed and I continued to be denied any opportunity to defend myself, I continued to not understand why I was being ostracized nor why I was being treated in such an inhumane way. In a later blog I will explain a little about the allegation but it is my belief that the trustees took the opportunity of using the malicious allegation as a means to remove me as the founder leader of the charity.  Sadly I have discovered that it is a relatively common occurence for Charity Founder Leaders to be unceremoniously and aggressively removed by Charity Board of Trustees.   

Towards the end of July 2011 shortly after receiving the results of my numerous hospital tests, the Board of Trustees terminated my secondment without any discussion with me.

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Thank you for reading my blog. Please feel free to offer your thoughts and suggestions. 

Thursday, 2 January 2014

Target of Workplace Bullying & Mobbing

It is relatively recently that I have realised I was the target of workplace bullying and workplace mobbing. This was confirmed when I realised I can confidently tick seven of the nine negative bullying behaviours, identified by the UK government's Health & Safety Executive website (www.hse.gov.uk) as having been used against me by the charity's Board of Trustees. The website states:
"There is no legal definition of workplace bullying. However, experts believe that bullying involves negative behaviour being targeted at an individual, or individuals, repeatedly and persistently over time. Negative behaviour includes: Ignoring or excluding you - Giving you unachievable tasks or ’setting you up to fail' - Spreading malicious rumours or gossip - Giving you meaningless tasks or unpleasant jobs - Making belittling remarks - Undermining your integrity - Withholding information deliberately - Making you look stupid in public - Undervaluing your contribution –not giving credit where it is due
Following a malicious unfounded complaint being made against me by a person with a very complex personality, the Board of Trustees failed to follow their own procedures and I was sent home, never to return to work again. No disciplinary hearing was held, a policy of silence was adopted and I was ostracised by all staff and trustees for a two month period on the instruction of the Chair of a trustees and the Treasurer. My numerous requests for meetings were ignored, as was my request to take out an informal grievance because of the treatment I was receiving. No information about the allegation was provided to me in writing and I was at a complete loss in making any sense of what was happening to me. I felt like I was being treated as though I had committed the most heinous of crimes, and yet I knew I had not done anything wrong. The stress was overwhelming and for the first time in my life I experienced panic attacks. After 4 weeks of complete ostracisation, no information, no means of having a voice and defending myself, I experienced a stress-related anoxic seizure, at which point my and my husband's world collapsed completely.